About Lacy
Lacy's vision for Swell Retreat and Hearts & Horses was born from her own experiences of healing and transformation. Inspired by the power of nature and equine therapy, she created a space where individuals can reconnect with themselves and find peace. Through her programs and retreats, Lacy empowers others to break free from limiting beliefs, cultivate resilience, and live a life of purpose.
Lacy's Timeline
1997
At the tender age of 14, Lacy's life took an unexpected turn when her father suffered a heart attack. This life-altering event ignited a spark within her, leading her to develop a unique approach to goal setting. Inspired by GPS technology, she began to map out her own path to success, creating clear, actionable steps to achieve her dreams. This formative experience laid the foundation for her future endeavors, shaping her into the determined and resourceful individual she is today.
1998
At the age of 15, Lacy's entrepreneurial spirit was ignited as she ventured into the world of multi-level marketing. This early exposure to business and sales honed her skills and instilled a strong work ethic. Her passion for personal growth and leadership led her to immerse herself in self-development books, fueling her desire to learn and evolve. This period marked the beginning of a lifelong journey of self-discovery and a commitment to continuous improvement.
2000
At the age of 17, Lacy's life took a significant turn. Inspired by her father's heart attack and driven by a desire to help others, she enlisted in the Army. This strategic move not only allowed her to serve her country but also provided a pathway to fund her medical school aspirations.
2004
2004 was a pivotal year that profoundly impacted Lacy's life. While deployed to Afghanistan, she endured a traumatic experience that forced her to confront adversity and find strength within herself. she was raped and taken advantage of by multiple men. This challenging period led her to intertwine her spiritual path with her pursuit of success, fostering resilience and empowering her to overcome obstacles and emerge stronger than ever.
2005
In 2005, Lacy made a significant life decision, choosing to prioritize family over her initial career path. Despite her passion for medicine, she opted to leave her pre-med courses, recognizing the importance of being present for her future family. This decision reflected her commitment to balance her personal and professional life, a value that would continue to shape her journey.
2006
In 2006, Lacy transitioned from her pre-med studies to the field of ordnance, a decision that would ultimately shape her into a strong and influential leader. This shift allowed her to develop valuable skills in management, problem-solving, and strategic thinking, setting the stage for her future endeavors as a successful business leader and mentor.
2008
Between 2008 and 2010, Lacy faced significant challenges in her personal life. Her marriage encountered difficulties, forcing her to confront her own shortcomings and seek personal growth. Ultimately, the dissolution of her marriage, while painful, served as a catalyst for self-discovery and transformation- prompting her to delve deep into self-reflection and ask the crucial question, "What can I learn from this?" These experiences shaped her resilience and empathy, laying the foundation for her future work as a coach and mentor.
2014
In 2014, Lacy achieved a significant milestone by rising to the top 3% of her field in the Army. However, this success was short-lived as she faced unexpected setbacks, including being blackballed and having her achievements undermined by leaders. Despite these challenges, she remained steadfast in her pursuit of personal and professional growth.
2015
In 2015, Lacy entered a new relationship, hoping to find love and stability. However, the patterns of her past began to repeat themselves, as she found herself in a relationship that triggered similar emotional responses. This experience forced her to confront unresolved issues and delve deeper into her own healing journey.
2017
In 2017, Lacy experienced a significant setback when her business venture failed, leading to financial hardship and a temporary period of living in a camper trailer. This challenging experience, while difficult, forced her to adapt, persevere, and ultimately emerge stronger. It also deepened her empathy for others facing adversity and fueled her desire to help people overcome their own challenges.
2020
In 2017, as one door closed, another opened for Lacy. Despite facing significant challenges, she seized an opportunity to purchase land for Swell Retreat. This pivotal moment marked the beginning of a new chapter, as she began to turn her dream into reality. In 2020, that dream materialized as Swell Retreat opened its doors, offering a haven for those seeking healing, growth, and connection with nature.
2021
In 2021, Lacy took a leap of faith, purchasing a home despite having no savings. This bold move required courage and trust in God, demonstrating her unwavering belief in herself and her ability to overcome challenges. This experience further solidified her commitment to living a life of purpose and abundance.
2022
2022 was a year marked by profound loss and grief for Lacy. The sudden and tragic death of her mother sent shockwaves through her life. As she navigated the complexities of grief, she also had to contend with her sister's intense anger and her husband's struggle with abandonment issues. This challenging period tested her resilience and forced her to confront her own vulnerabilities. However, through it all, Lacy found strength in her faith and a renewed commitment to her own healing journey.
2023
In 2023, Lacy's passion for helping others and her personal experiences led to the creation of Hearts & Horses at Swell Retreat. This transformative program, rooted in nature and horse-assisted therapy, offers individuals a space to heal, grow, and connect with their authentic selves. Hearts & Horses has become the cornerstone of Live Swell, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals to live their best lives.
2024
In 2024, Lacy's vision for helping others expanded beyond the physical space of Swell Retreat. She launched Hearts & Horses online, bringing the transformative power of equine-assisted therapy to a wider audience. Additionally, she embarked on a literary journey, authoring "Her Unseen Battle" and working on her second book. To further her mission, Lacy created the Live Swell online platform and is actively developing a mobile app, both designed to empower individuals and foster personal growth.